Does God just watch?
If God is real and good, it’s fair to ask why he lets terrible things happen. The Bible doesn’t hide from that question. It answers it mostly with stories.
Joseph was seventeen when his brothers sold him to traders heading for Egypt. He spent years as a slave, then years in prison for something he didn’t do. Nothing about that was good, and the Bible never pretends it was.
Twenty years later he stood in front of the same brothers, now with the power to do anything he liked to them. What he said has been read by suffering people ever since.
But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive.Genesis 50:20
Both things are true
Joseph doesn’t say his brothers did the right thing. Their evil was real. He says that God was working inside it the whole time, toward something they could never have seen. Watching isn’t the word for that.
The clearest case is the cross. The worst thing human beings ever did was to kill the one person who had done nothing wrong. It was also the moment God chose to break evil’s hold for good. What people meant as an ending, he made a beginning.
Not a formula
None of this is a formula to lay over someone’s grief. Joseph waited twenty years to see any good, and many people don’t see it in this life at all. What Scripture gives isn’t an explanation for each loss. It gives a record of what God has done with pain before, and a promise about where it ends.
And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying.Revelation 21:4
Until then, the Bible says God is close to the people who are hurting, not far away from them.